None of this would have mattered if we had a loving, emotionally bonded relationship. Instead, I felt abandoned and responsible for everything and that they were just along for the ride. That I should be ecstatic to be in the presence of the wonderfulness of them.

I left in 2019 and restarted my life back home. Then the love bombing started, yet, again, I didn’t know. I thought I might get out of debt. Yes, the ex followed me.

2020 happened and the world stopped. I volunteered to be a Covid Nurse. This was the narc’s excuse to move to the guest room. Yet they had no problem eating the food that I would go to the store to get and cook. They would only come out of the bedroom when I started cooking. Would only speak to me if I went to their room.

Finally in March of 2021, I started seeing Melanie’s videos on FB. I was speechless that there was a NAME for this kind of behavior. I was so, so ready for this person to be out of my life. I did everything Melanie said. I started with “gray rock”. I didn’t react to anything. We didn’t speak for a week.

They told me they were going to see their family for two weeks and I very calmly said, “you need to stay there”.

They were gone in June. I went no contact. I deleted and blocked their phone number. I was reading all of Melanie’s blogs and watching the videos, so I was ready for the smear campaign. And boy did it come! The narcissist had detached me from their family years ago, so I really didn’t care what the flying monkeys had to say.

I noticed the first wave of relief was not sustaining and I was having anger issues. The foggy brain wasn’t clearing up, and I wasn’t doing well at work. I didn’t understand why I wasn’t feeling joy, freedom and happiness, just anger and frustration.

On July 21, 2021, I joined NARP, because “there was nothing else to do”.

My mind was an absolute puddle. I was second guessing myself on everything.

I dove into NARP with full on Trust. I didn’t understand what I was doing, but I Trusted. I felt I was in a life-or-death fight.

At first, it would take me the second healing before my mind would calm down enough to get out of the way. I have embraced the NARP program. I was so nervous all the time, stomach in knots, worried about bills … this has subsided immensely.

Within weeks I was offered a retainer bonus at work and received a pay raise. I also lost 40lbs of stress cortisol weight.

I had a setback in September, over the Labor Day Holiday. I was working with Covid patients and had hard chills, temp was 103F. I tested negative for Covid. I could not get out of bed. I was tested for the flu, also negative. Lab work was normal. It hit me so hard, it had to be WETIKO, their power was being taken away. It was Quanta Freedom Healing night and day.

In October, I went on a holiday to Florida BY MYSELF, for the first time ever. THAT was what I needed.

It has now been five months since joining NARP. I am amazed at my transition and transformation.

The single greatest thing the Modules did for me was put a mirror up to myself. After the initial shock and focusing on letting go of the narcissist and all that entailed, I have been able to incorporate the Modules to other aspects in my life.

NARP has provided me with resources to be accountable for ME. I am responsible for ME. There is a Module for letting go of guilt and while I am not guilty for what happened, I am responsible – I was there.

To my fellow Thrivers, you must Trust. There is more to this. Our collective abuse has sent us to this place and point in time. We are sensitive, empathic, survivors. This is our Close Encounters of the Third Kind but instead of a mountain, it was Narcissistic abuse that has brought us together. We are getting stronger with each other, and with strength we CAN make a difference."

Melanie’s wonderful blogs became a total life-line to me as a spiritually drowning woman. Mel was a Godsend. I gained confidence through this and went on a computer dating site where after a year I met my new husband.

We are true Soul Mates and have been together 7 years and happily married for 5 years. We were both 60 when we met so love and a new life can happen when you are older.

I joined NARP because I still had nightmares and obsessive thinking about my previous narcissistic abuse. I found it of great comfort and it has reduced the obsessive thoughts and nightmares greatly.

Without Melanie’s help I don’t think I could have survived let alone turned my life around. I feel successful now because I feel happy.

Thank you Mel for years of loving support. My love goes out to all sufferers of narcissistic abuse – don’t give up."

Over the course of our short relationship, I put up with moodiness, being ignored, used for sex, rejected when I wanted intimacy, arguments that led to screaming, cursing and things being broken, stealing my money, buying and using drugs with and without my knowledge, gaslighting, crazy making, dissing my friends and family and eventually physical abuse.

And, though it has taken me a lot of work to forgive myself for birthing my daughter into that toxic environment, I am so proud of myself for leaving when I did. When my daughter was about 6 months old, with the help of my family, I left and moved back in with my parents.

As many will know all too well the abuse continued despite my leaving, and when a friend mentioned narcissism, I hungrily devoured any information I could on the subject. Now I felt validated!

After 6 months my now one-year-old and I moved into a house on our own and my ex left the area. Any interaction with my ex led to hours of talk therapy and analyzing. I was dabbling in what I thought was self-care, seeking solace within my religion and starting to wish for a new partner to fix my loneliness.

All the while Melanie’s work kept popping up in my late-night internet searches and I was feeling more and more called to do NARP. I had never spent that much money on anything remotely similar, I didn’t understand how it would work and was very skeptical. But I thought there would be no harm in doing the 16 day free course and free Quanta Freedom Healing webinar. I was not wrong, and I purchased NARP days later. The words spoke to me in a way nothing else had yet. I started to realize that my life hadn’t just happened TO me, it was FOR me to start becoming the real me and loving her.

I saw that my relationship with myself was so unhealthy that I actually wasn’t capable of having a healthy relationship with someone else. My inner beliefs of “I am not good enough” could only generate relationships that reinforced this.

So far I’ve identified trauma from as young as two years old. I’ve then held space for that pain, been with it and felt it rather than pushing it away, and then shifted it with Quanta Freedom Healing to make room for and accept love and light. That is the beauty of this program for me. The part that wows me the most is that once I have done this, it is gone. I don’t have to deal with that issue again and my life is genuinely changed after every shift.

I have been doing NARP when I can for over three years and have started the Empowered Self Modules with great success in the last 6 months. After only two years on my own and doing my inner work 2-5 times a week, I reconnected with my high school sweetheart and we have added another little girl to our family.

He came back into my life when I was no longer searching. Without the path I have taken I know I would not have been able to appreciate this man and accept his love. But what an amazing feeling to be able to speak my truth and be my true self around my partner without fear of rejection.

This journey has led me down a variety of other paths of growth and so many back up Melanie’s work and enhance my NARP learning. I encourage anyone relating even a tiny bit to my story to do the work! It can be hard, but it is also so liberating. With each layer of the old me shed, the real me shines easier. It was tiring to live that old life, it is not tiring to be the REAL YOU.

I now have so much gratitude for the past where I used to hold resentment. Gratitude for that relationship with the narcissist forcing me to look within and learn to love ME. Gratitude for the knowledge I now have and can teach my daughters. So maybe they will be more in tune with their intuition and know in their hearts that they are enough, because their mumma sure is.

Love and light to all!"

Sara describes the narcissist in her previous life, “She was strong, charismatic, and intelligent. She was studying psychology and was in the same line of work that I was in. We had amazing chemistry and started dating. My narcissist would be labeled as an altruistic narcissist. She was active with volunteer work, helped her mother, her grandmother, and her 2 best friends who were disabled. She also had a past as an alcoholic and drug addict. She had been sober and off drugs and alcohol for 10 years and had completely turned her life around.”

This relationship continued very painfully for four years, in which Sara discovered numerous infidelities, lies and experienced great abuse coupled with hoovering and love-bombing.

Sara was terribly trauma bonded and peptide addicted to her, throughout this soul roller-coaster ride.

“At that point, my life felt out of control. My health was a mess, I had lost friends and my relationships with family were strained due to all of the drama in my life. I was at a low point and needed help.”

Sara joined the webinar. She then signed up to be a Gold NARP member.

It was then that Sara was able to start truly healing. She said, “I finally got up the nerve to go No Contact. I changed my phone number, I changed my email address, I filed a police report and she gave up really quickly.”

“I got a lot of results within 6 months of doing the NARP program. When I started daily Quantum healing sessions I was able to stop the peptide addiction.

I spent the next two years being single, working on my healing, and releasing the trauma.”

Sara now is in a loving live-in relationship with her life-partner.

‘Many of us have had difficulties with codependency as we are such caring and loving people. I look at my relationship with the narc as the final test in my journey of healing from childhood trauma.”

She had tried Prozac in her 20’s to level out the chemicals in her brain, and had been in and out of counselling since age 5.

Marcie described her therapy as this: “I felt like I was in a cycle where I was encouraged to continue to talk about the problems and how I felt, but nothing was discussed about permanently getting rid of them. I felt like I was always going to live depressed and full of anxiety.”

When Marcie joined the NARP Community she said that this was her last roll of the dice. If NARP didn’t work she truly believed she would die, the pain was so great, and she just couldn’t go on anymore.

However, with NARP relief came very quickly.

As Marcie said, “The first healing I did, I cried for the first time in years, it felt so good. I felt a weight lifted from me.”

Marcie, now, after working the NARP Healing Modules 3-4 times a week for a year, is truly Thriving.

She says, “Using NARP results were instant and lightning fast, after years and years of counseling and only getting temporary relief.”

“Never in a million years would I have thought I had the confidence to do this – NARP gave me the knowing I am whole, healthy, deserving, worthy within to experience all life has to offer.”

Marcie finally had this to say, “Each person is worthy of a thriving life and to live whole and healthy. Using the NARP program with so many fellow Thrivers has been the best and most rewarding journey of my life.”

MARCIE, USA

By then he had little interest in the kids – he was verbally, at times physically, abusive with them yet had a stronger relationship with our 8-year-old son.

He found someone and had to be the “perfect father”, so he escalated the smear campaign against me.

He said I was alienating the kids from him – that I was a mentally ill alcoholic, bitter over the divorce and his re-partnering – falsely claiming I was a Schizophrenic.

I armed myself with NARP and shifted limiting beliefs about why my kids would rather be with him:

I am worthless.

He has a new, better, shiny, working, not fat version of me.

He has family, connections, money.

Everyone will believe his version of the story, he is more charming and likeable than me.

I am alone and unsupported.

I will not be able to financially support myself.

By shifting those beliefs this manifested:

Three of my four children saw through him.

He tripped on his lies consistently – they were exposed in our mediations and negotiations.

My lawyer was excellent but his was even better. Turns out his expensive lawyer consistently acted for our children’s best interests, not the narc’s, I wasn’t alone or unsupported.

The mediated parenting agreement was a stroke of brilliance.

I went back to work in a high-paying, high-status role."

SUZIE, UK

I had no idea that I was even being abused. I just figured that this was my life. I desperately wanted out of this deep dark hole but my fear of letting anyone know how imperfect our marriage really was kept me quiet.

Someone in passing shared Melanie’s website and finally, all this chaos and brokenness had a name. Through Melanie and her expert advice I began to orchestrate an exit plan based on “No Contact.”

NARP provided me the tools to begin to heal. It felt a bit scary at first but then it was as if someone had given me a glass of cold, refreshing water after being totally dehydrated.

Through NARP, I now had the tools to help me deal with trauma and damage that ran much deeper than getting over a bad relationship. There was a lot of cleansing that had to take place.

Healing is not for the faint of heart. But it was worth every tear, worth every raw release of hidden trauma, worth every surrender within my pile of faulty beliefs.

I gave myself permission to accept unconditionally the love that had always been mine to begin with. I deserved this life that was full, complete, and trauma-free. I can be transparent and real now because I did the work of clearing out the junk, so the good stuff can take up full residence. There is nothing to hide.

I choose to no longer be stuck in the world of victimhood. I choose to align myself with a love that represents the authentic me with daily helpings of joy and fulfillment."

In 2015 I moved to live with him. It quickly tookAfter three years, I had serious battle wounds in the forms of PTSD, BPD, episodes of severe disassociation after bouts of sexual abuse, a suicide attempt, a drug and alcohol habit, no trust or self-worth to speak of, a severe anxiety disorder, Narcissistic Abuse Syndrome, depression and a total loss of faith in good people.” She felt like she was truly losing her mind.

Then something happened and she remembered she had the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program (NARP) and the Quanta Freedom Healing (QFH) Modules.

She continues, “After everything I had been through, I didn’t think there was hope for me. But I began doing the work, listening to Melanie’s voice as I lay on the bed, journaling the worksheets one by one. I could not believe how effective her techniques were; I could not believe the level of intelligence that her innovative healing modalities encompass. And how effective!

This may be the only modality that I believe to really work. It was way faster than any therapy session. But QFH is all about the recognition and the release of the traumas we’ve kept locked in our bodies for so, so long.”

My initial breakdown occurred after my relationship with the narc boyfriend ended in December 2012. I’d reached my “enough” moment.

I was severely depleted, I was desperately seeking something to make me feel safe. I had to leave my home, it was difficult to work and be a single parent to our daughter and my two other children. They were very dark days and I thought I was going to die.

Melanie’s work saved my life. Yet, the narc took me to court and I had a terrible experience with no one believing he was harming our child. He was awarded joint residence of our daughter.

NARP had sat in my PC for years. I had a tremendous resistance to starting it. In 2019 I accepted I had to do the work, or die.

I finally started NARP. It was like an avalanche thereafter, so much came up and I was wracked with grief for my lost childhood.

My life has changed beyond measure since doing the work with NARP. The ex boyfriend was found to be mistreating our daughter and he can no longer see her.

As I recover, I can see the transformation in her. The anxiety and depression is starting to lift and our relationship gets closer and more loving every day. My parents no longer trigger me as I’ve healed my inner child in relation to them."

I upgraded to the Gold membership for the Source Healing and Resolution Module when NARP 3 was released. This version was so much easier for me to use.

When it’s time to do a Module, I just ask my inner child which Module she wants. I don’t worry about the sequential order or if the title matches the trauma to be worked on. I know she always picks the right one.

That’s when things began to change.

At the end of 2018 I finally got a job even though I wasn’t very qualified for it and got caught up on bills.

I was able to re-enroll in a graduate program I had to drop out of twice because of narc abuse at home and work.

I needed a new vehicle and I was looking at Mercedes Benz online. The local dealership got my information and asked me to come and see a vehicle.

I have wanted a Mercedes since I was 7 and finally got one.

Then I found an apartment with an amazing view that should have been priced much higher.

I moved out of the narc home and have been No Contact ever since.

I finally got a job in my usual occupational industry. I had quit my other job because of abuse by my N boss and his flying monkeys.

Court with my children’s father has been postponed due to COVID-19. I didn’t fret or panic. In fact he has a warrant for his arrest, will go to jail, and lose custody.

I am happy to be alive and Thriving. I am happy to take all the time I need to heal with NARP."

I tried to leave but he promised to quit drinking and being an asshole, he said if I left he would take our son from me.

We went to counselling and he slowed down the drinking and changed for about 6 months. My next pregnancy was the worst ever for abuse. My older children were the targets. I lived in a bubble in my room just to keep my baby inside me as long as I could.

The night she was born, he showed up drunk and was abusive to me while I was in labour. I knew then and there I was leaving.

He forced me to have sex with him even after I had a traumatic birth. I told him it hurt – my spirit went somewhere else.

After I got on my phone and found an apartment online, I was starting over from scratch with my 5 kids.

I saw a lawyer and followed her advice to a tee. I told him on the Friday I want a divorce. We went to therapist that made me out to be the crazy one leaving this “amazingly insightful husband”.

He tried to have sex with me, I kicked and punched back. I won this time.

That Saturday my 5 kids and I left.

I was on maternity leave with 5 kids ages 18, 17, 15, 2 and 2 months. I was getting $336 a week from the government. I couldn’t pay all the bills, buy food or anything. He refused to support me and his children. We began litigation.

He still had access to my 2 youngest and verbally abused me at every exchange. My older kids and I were in therapy but I would get triggered and I cried in the shower so my kids wouldn’t hear me.

One day after he verbally abused me I was in the bath and had thoughts of drowning myself or imagined my car crashing or being hit by a truck.

My cousin told me he was a narcissist, I began researching.

Everything I read felt like my own life. I went back to my therapist but she didn’t get it and discarded it.

Then I found Mel and NARP. On my first Quanta Freedom Healing session I had a huge cry, yelling and shaking then release and felt amazing after 4 shifts.

I ordered NARP Gold and did one session every day. I felt stronger, healthier and more like myself.

At court, the judge ruled to split the family home 50-50, child support for the younger two and spousal support until I return to work. I felt the judge saw him for what he was.

We return to court in a couple of months for custody and access to the two little ones.

My kids and I are now living in the new home I bought with the settlement.

I am no longer living in fear of being abused or raped. He no longer says a word to me at access exchanges and I feel nothing when I look at him.

When I get triggered, I just go straight to Module 1 and think about the beautiful people, experiences, blessings and things I have in my life.

You can get out. If you do, the mud will start to wash off, it will start to slip off, dry up and brush off. The rainbow will come. Just breathe and feel your strong soul in there.

I believe I chose this path, to go into the darkness, into the mud just so I would evolve and become more enlightened. After 2 abusive relationships I have come out of this one better than ever.

UPDATE: Monica let us know that she had a breakthrough in her custody battle in October – “The courts are finally done. 🙂 I was granted primary care of my children. Joint custody and they are with me 65% of the time.”

MONICA, CANADA

I was scared to leave the house for fear of bumping into him. I was ashamed of being a single parent with a baby that I felt so unattached to.

The feeling that I would never be free from him or this nightmare was overwhelming, I thought there was only one way out and admitted to wanting to crash my car and didn’t want to leave my son behind. On professional advice I fled to a refuge with my 9 month old son.

Then I came across Melanie’s work, did a free webinar and purchased NARP straight away.

Two weeks into NARP I felt a newfound confidence in myself. I left the refuge as miraculously a friend offered me a house I could stay in for free with my son.

During the next 2 months, I began making decisions for myself and started to enjoy time with my son.

Now less than a year doing NARP we continue to Thrive and I am so proud to be his Mum.

Regardless of the court outcome I have freed myself and my son.

I never thought I could feel so much love, gratitude and peace. If I had to go through this all again to get here I absolutely would, but the beauty of NARP is that I never have to again. NARP truly saved my life and my soul."

I knew I had to buy the NARP Gold membership package, but instead of starting, something took over and the program just sat there staring back at me.

At 61 years of age, I was still stuck in the horrible dance with another narcissistic abuser. And when the discard exploded all over me yet again, I felt completely drained emotionally, confused and broken.

Plus, I had been diagnosed with severe Rheumatoid Arthritis (RA), an auto-immune disease, and it would flare up to almost intolerable levels.

Sick and tired of allowing this to keep happening in my life, and done with ineffective talk therapy, finally after two years, I said ENOUGH!

Fast forward almost a year later and since committing to do the inner work with NARP, all the symptoms of RA, have either reduced tremendously or disappeared entirely.

These are the changes in my life from working with NARP:

• I now exist with a deep peace of mind, body and spirit.

• I have learned to self-love and self-soothe and have the courage to be me – the best me I can be.

• I was able to both forgive the narcissists in my life and forgive myself.

• There are no more narcissists or toxic people in my life, because I no longer accept their reality.

• I am not afraid to clearly identify and make my limits/boundaries known.

• I no longer feel hopelessly bound, consumed or controlled by my emotional baggage.

NARP has been 100% more effective for my healing from narcissistic abuse than years of counselling, talk therapy, self-help books and prescription medication. It has touched every part of my being – physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually.

I have never been happier in my life.

My NARP package is one of, if not THE most cherished possession I own. I truly believe it saved my life. I just WISH I had known about this decades ago, as it took me until I was 61 to connect to my true life."

It was the beginning of 2017 and I felt worse than ever before. At home, I couldn’t function but forced myself to when my children were with me, but when they stayed with their father, I was in bed consumed with crippling fear and depression, feeling isolated and helpless.

During Mel’s free webinar I experienced my first Quanta Freedom Healing. The next morning, I actually felt a real release and an absence of the terrorizing fear and depression! I could not believe it!

I had a lot to heal such as body dysmorphia, panic attacks, having absolutely NO boundaries, extreme people-pleasing, so much fear I think I was afraid of my own shadow!

Very soon I was able to go to a shop and not have a panic attack or run back home. Within a few months, my children began to have a calm, happy mummy.

Three months after my co-workers were commenting on how much I had changed from this very anxious, nervous woman to someone with confidence and a smile.

Within 6 months I was able to come off medication that previously I couldn’t imagine being without.

I began to LOVE myself. Wow! Self-Partnering … Knowing I can survive without a man.

Eighteen months after starting NARP, I finally broke free of the religious sect, I also left my abusive workplace as I recognized my boss as a Narcissist.

I trained in Reiki modalities and discovered I was psychically gifted and have been working on creating my own business!

I started meeting new, wonderful people, that I have been able to create real friendships with, being able to say ‘yes’ or ‘no’ when I actually meant it.

I am 38 years young and have been a NARPer for about two and half years – and finally – I have just graduated on to the Empowered Self course! All I can say, it’s absolutely amazing!"

Melanie’s videos were like water to a thirsty soul. I was relieved to finally identify what I was going through! I felt like I was solving my own mystery!

I opened up to the needs of the inner child in me via her Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program (NARP). It took me five years because I really did love him – but I resolved to love myself MORE and work on releasing inner traumas.

Five years with moments of sheer bliss and connection with him, followed by days of sheer hell, knowing he was with another woman.

At first, I’d do whatever he wanted, degrade myself … He is sexy, charming, talented, smart and emotional but full of lies and deceit. A broken soul.

Through my healing process I wrote and recorded an album. I’m hoping it will speak to and emancipate the souls that are still trapped in this nightmare.

These are lyrics from one of my songs, All This Time, “I am a Phoenix, I flew out of the fire, took me for dead but I rose even higher, even higher. Oh came back again, back again. Oh rose from the dead.”

I could write volumes and am committed to helping others through my music and testimony, sharing in my songs that there is life after having your soul hijacked and imprisoned.

Thank you Melanie for giving me the keys to unlock my shackles."

Through NARP I was able to finally do the work to get out of this cycle. I was able to address all of the negativity, pain and brokenness which surrounded me throughout my life. When the memories of all the abusive times from when I was very young came back to me, I realized I had never dealt with any of those “feelings”.

The confusing thing for my young mind was that each time these things happened, when I would talk with my mom about them, I was punished or yelled at.

With NARP I was able to understand she was responding as any mother would when she learns her child had been molested – with anger. Not at me but at the molester and the situation.

I took an eight week class at my church which ended with a “Freedom Encounter” which was a powerful release of everything that I had been working for. I walked out of that four hour encounter finally feeling liberated. But I know I couldn’t have gotten there without all of the work I had been doing with NARP as part of the Thriver Community.

Today I am confident, happy, and very satisfied to be single. I have been traveling with my friend from work. I have accepted a very challenging job as a data analyst, with no formal training. And I am leading 16 women to Freedom with the church’s initiative, but I also manage to sprinkle in some of the same techniques I learned from the NARP recovery program so they can heal too."

In 1995 husband number four started an unsuccessful business. Our house went into foreclosure, the electricity got shut off, and we had very little money for food. Unfortunately, he had access to my retirement savings of twenty-five years of employment. He used all of it leaving me with nothing.

I couldn’t eat and my kidneys were failing from the stress. Eventually, I left him and for six months I either lived in my car or slept on people’s couches. I kept using my drugs, and my mind was becoming more and more useless to me.

When he left the house I returned. I had nothing. I relied on government programs to help get me by. Eventually, I qualified for disability insurance.

I found Melanie’s work many years earlier, but now I began doing the full NARP program earnestly.

Positive results started happening from day one. I felt relief come over me from my very first NARP Module. I felt hope and an inner strength that I didn’t know I had.

Five years later, at 61, I am thrilled to report that I am completely drug-free and fully immersed now in health and fitness. I feel and look better than I have my entire life, and I am about to launch my very own online nutrition and exercise programs.

I am also in a relationship with a loving and caring man.

I raised both of my kids, now 43 and 32, as a single parent. I spent much of their life in their teenage and early adult years dealing with their drug addictions, as a result of their upbringing and their own feelings of worthlessness.

I believe as a result of my healing through NARP, my adult children are now in loving relationships of their own and parenting their own children, my grandchildren, from a place of love and with a whole-hearted commitment to their children.

Seeing me find my own way, gave them permission to find theirs.

I know that NARP literally saved and gave me my life. It will yours, too.”

I decided to sell my ten-year-old company and travel to Italy to create space from him.

I had never been to Europe, so this experience was a challenge. The days seemed long in Italy. I could still feel the pull to him and parts of me missed him.

I arrived home to find him lurking around, I heard he had a woman, I felt myself shrinking and I wanted to vomit. There was still an intense pull from him that is unexplainable.

I slipped deeper into the darkest hole, spending most days in bed and barely eating, I became physically ill.

With Melanie’s blog I started to come back to life and understand his behavior was unacceptable. I joined the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program (NARP) and once I focused on me, everything started to change at a deeper level.

NARP helped me understand abuse was a part of my family and life since childhood. I soaked in love by receiving abuse. I was addicted to the control by a man which I perceived as love.

Melanie has created a masterpiece that will guide you to see the light as well. Do the work, you are worth it. Her community platform is here for all of us wherever you are in the world."

I tried religious therapies, self-help books, and communication techniques. I knew I needed something deeper.

Melanie’s video on why narcissists love intelligent people really grabbed me. It was like she was talking about MY LIFE.

At first I was concerned about the mode of spirituality present in NARP, but I kept an open mind. Melanie’s encouragement put me at ease. I was immediately brought to tears when the session began, and then I was amazed at how quickly I felt relief.

Over the course of my Thriver journey, my entire outlook on life has shifted. I no longer attract dysfunctional relationships. I moved to an amazing community, and my children are all thriving.

I’ve begun to recover from eating disordered behavior, and I am cultivating self-love in a way I never thought possible. I feel like I’ve awoken from a long sleep. I’m excited for my future now!

I’d have to say that my children have exhibited the quickest and most positive changes. They are amazing, and I am grateful that they are on this journey with me."

NARP taught me how to self-soothe old patterns and squirrelly thinking. I found out who I am.

NO CONTACT WAS THE BEST ADVICE EVER.

I learned how to leave, how to look at things to present a pattern of behavior to the courts, to lawyers, to my children – this was so important. I had to be the sane parent.

NARP was my armour. When I went to see my lawyer, when I went to see the business forensics guys, when I went to court, when I went to mediation, when I went back to court, when I got another lawyer, when I signed the house over, when I chose a new career path … it was all NARP-backed.

My kids did not understand because I had hidden things so well. And I was certain he was telling them I was crazy.

I really have a new life now, in a career I didn’t even know existed until after NARP. I have the best work I have ever had in a dream job.

Relationships with my grown children have healed. I have 3 beautiful grandchildren! Those relationships are True Love.

I can say that Melanie’s NARP program is a doorway into a new way of living and of connecting to the life source that is all around us."

I endured this abuse at home and at work and reached a point where it got physical once. After moving in together the money issues began.

This horror story lasted 6 months. I questioned my very existence and started having panic attacks.

I was ashamed to go to my parents but I called my Mom and opened my door to freedom.

She explained that I was being abused and agreed to help me leave if I would NOT return to him.

After leaving him he sabotaged me at work and turned the entire staff against me.

Then he used our relationship (which broke company policy) to take me out. Instant karma occurred and we were both forced to resign.

I moved in with my parents who supported me. I went No Contact but I was distraught and confused.

Mel’s YouTube videos resonated with me and I experienced my first shift during one of her free workshops!!

I purchased NARP as a gold member and soon started experiencing life-changing events.

My NARP recovery took about 8-9 months but the healing journey is never ending!

My life has never been better! I am happily self-partnered, I’m a boundary boss, and I’m a narc repellent! I have healthy connections with several people, I’m moving into my own home and I have a better career opportunity.

Life can only go up from here!! It all started with narcissistic abuse and ended with NARP …"

My sister frequently started fights with me and put me down. I always had to play small with her to keep the peace. I finally went No Contact six years ago. My ex’s and her behaviour were similar in many ways. I felt as if I was only valuable when I was doing what they demanded.

Three months ago I found Melanie’s website. Oh boy was that an eye opener! I did not hesitate to try NARP. I thought it was very reasonably priced and I liked that I could watch the videos and listen to the modules whenever I wanted, in the privacy of my home.

The relief I experienced in my chest was immediate.

The first week a very strange and unexpected thing happened. I was walking outside, thinking of nothing in particular, and this wave of lightness and well being entered my body and mind, and I smiled. I had never felt that before.

The best way I can describe it is that throughout my whole life there has been this heavy, thick dark curtain dragging me down. And that particular day, the curtain ripped a little and I saw and felt the sunshine for the first time in my life. How wonderful is that?!

The modules continue to make that “black curtain” disappear. I now often experience feeling relaxed and spontaneous joy.

For the cost of one or two therapy sessions you will forever have the tools to lighten your heart, soul, body and feel joy … maybe for the first time in your life."

The NARP process was easy to pick up for me. At times doing the Modules felt painful and upsetting, but these times mean so much is shifting within you.

Patterns of co-dependency and narcissism have been with me since childhood. Fear, guilt, shame, unworthiness and aiming to please my mother became the familiar reality for me.

NARP and Mel’s articles on parenting and her son Zac, transformed my parenting and ensured the breaking of these damaging patterns for me and my son.

My life now expresses the light that was always present within yet hidden under so much fear. I now have a flourishing art business, exhibiting and selling my artwork worldwide!

I also run a private FB group ‘Intuitive Painting – Grace & Joy! especially for Highly Sensitive People and those interested in Spirituality.

And I have started local workshops in my town. I would NEVER have felt able to do this before NARP!

NARP is a lifetime ‘tool’ and dedicating this healing time to myself has been the greatest gift of self-respect and empowerment! My Thriving life has already changed beyond anything I’d ever thought possible!"

Renee’s husband then employed scare tactics during the relentless legal proceedings using disturbing behaviour and then pathological lies to add to her mounting distress and she became sick from the overwhelming stress of it all.

Renee’s psychologist promptly recognized he was a Narcissist. She researched how to strategize and protect herself and her children against the unrelenting emotional sledgehammering. She did this on her three hour round trip to and from work each day.

In 2016, Renee discovered NARP, she says, ‘I was so consumed with learning about Narcissists, and keeping my head above water, that I did not venture into the Quanta Freedom Healing Modules for another six months.’

‘At first I was skeptical that anything could alleviate what I was experiencing, but soon realised I held the key to my own recovery.

Within six weeks, life around me started to shift profoundly, in alignment with my inner shifts. This was a true edification process.’

Renee shares her thoughts on NARP, ‘This program has the intrinsic power to reconfigure trauma and distress, into enlightenment and soul transcendence.’

‘My children could sense and feel these changes, and they too became more settled and at peace with themselves. I made sure that I never talked badly about the ex-N to them, nor did I ever disclose the nightmare of what had really transpired. We just lived life in harmony together, and eventually, the torment for all of us stopped.’

Renee concludes, ‘The greatest joy in all of this is the confirmation that my children and I are now healed, and that this sinister cycle of abuse has been severed for future generations. That, in itself, is a true blessing. And you can so do this too! Just believe in yourself, and never give up.’

My search for answers led me to Melanie and her Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program (NARP).

After my first NARP “shift” I had several more in quick succession. I felt myself breaking free from the heavy, soul-leaching spell of narcissistic abuse.

In six months I hardly thought about him at all, in a year all I would feel was complete indifference towards him. Two years later, I felt a deep gratitude for his playing his role so well that it brought me to where I am today.

Now, as a result of NARP and Quanta Freedom Healing, my outlook on life is far more expanded and far lighter than I could have ever imagined. I can now say with complete confidence that I am truly happy.

Melanie has given me the gift of self healing and self-love. Life and all its ups and downs need not get the better of me anymore.

Working NARP is not always easy, but this much I know – it works. The NARP path to healing is never predictable, but with patience, perseverance and a modicum of self-attention, it is inevitable."

I was desperate for his love and I gave up my dream degree to go be with him in Ibiza.

It quickly spiralled into a chaotic circus of illegal business, cheating, drugs and before I knew it I was pregnant.

Four years later I woke up understanding that the life I was living was very, very wrong. I had to escape my own life yet again, but tied up with children and houses meant I couldn’t just walk out.

It wasn’t until I found myself homeless, jobless and penniless that I realised that the common denominator in all of my awful events was in fact me.

Melanie’s approach resonated with me, and in the beginning, I did 8 NARP healing sessions per day and only 3 months later I started doing work I loved.

When the abuser began threatening me again, I went to the police, and to court. Because of my work with NARP I knew what to do, and what to say in court.

The best part is that my book, Escaping the Magic, is being published this year.

If you are in an abusive relationship there is only one way forward – to heal yourself. And with NARP you have access to all the support, love and healing you will need."

I ended up leaving the cult and my job and returned to New York to my family home. I had horrible nightmares as a result of the cult.

I was 30 years old when I entered therapy to know why I kept attracting these people and harmful experiences into my life. I discovered that my mom was a narcissist. At times I felt better, at times I felt the pain of my past. I even seriously contemplated suicide.

My therapist suggested I write a book, it is called, “How I Broke the Generational Curse”, it is about navigating the discovery of a narcissist mother and an enabling family.

When I found NARP it was a happy accident. Melanie offered a way to heal the pain and trauma.

NARP gave me the permission to be my own saviour. Through Quanta Freedom Healing I was able to go back to childhood traumas and heal and change the internal programming and self-dialog.

Healing, I believe, is the most important work we will do on earth. It is my hope that people who are hurting will come to realize this and value this work, for it is then and only then that we can step into who we truly are and what we are truly meant to experience and have."

That was the beginning of a painful journey out of the abyss. I prepared the separation meticulously, using all Mel’s advice and free resources.

I dithered until late 2018, finally purchasing NARP and it has helped me turn many, many things around.

My inner journey took me to key experiences in this life and before. I found and healed wounds from former lives, from when I was in utero, already scared almost to insanity faced with my mother’s loathing and fear of me.

As I shifted, my body became healthier, I slept, I ate, things started falling into place. I have never felt this happy, healthy, free and empowered in my entire life.

I have broken the chain, all the links from childhood abuse right up to the last time I was face to face with my husband. I intend to remain free, and my children are free, strong, authentic and happy too.

Can my life get any better? This is already way above my wildest hopes and dreams, I feel so alive again.

Outwardly, our life is still a mess: no divorce, no custody and property settlement, hateful attempts to harm and derail us – unsuccessful all of them! And yet my days are filled with joy, love and progress."

NARP showed me my unresolved internal traumas. Deep down I believed there was something wrong with me despite my successes.

I started and stopped NARP before I finally committed to the program last year.

When you move into being a Thriver, narcissists often self-select themselves out of your existence!

Feeling free and unencumbered after my last unhealthy relationship, I eagerly resumed NARP. This time it worked.

In LESS THAN ONE YEAR post-narcissist, my life is taking off. I have an even deeper sense of inner peace and freedom – I can breathe!

The dark cloud floating over my head my whole life has disappeared! I moved into a town home, made new friends, enjoy financial success, got a raise and an award at work, and am debt-free.

I’m a power lifter and have set new personal records, and even built a gym at home.

I’m grateful that I got serious about this journey in my mid-30s, and am looking forward to living the rest of my life the Thriver way. It’s so liberating!

I am now working through the Empowered Self Course. Healing is a work in progress.

To those considering NARP – you CAN do this. You will swim against the tide and not follow the herd, because NARP is a revolutionary way of being and thinking.

But the payoff is HUGE."